SS you are right, what works for me is direct contact i.e. dialogue. SMS texts are for messaging NOT dialogue.
Texting was fine initially but I want direct contact now. I guess this is a Relationship Goal for me. What this would look like is phonecalls - not every night necessarily but that would be nice - but a few times a week at least to catch up with each other, share our days and how we feel about what's going on (not R talk) but how we feel about work etc.
Another would be doing something together once/week. What this would look like is planning ahead and making an arrangement. I'm pretty busy these days so booking something in the diary is important.
MWD says these goals should be achieved in 2-3 weeks So between now and 3 weeks time I would like to speak on the phone a couple of times a week and see each other 3 times if time allows.
My prior goal was maintaining text contact which is pretty much happening tho I worry about it (need to stop that)
As for moving on after two years. Well, we were piecing in year 1 and he moved back then his ex died and he "ran". This year has been different to year 1. I've been more focused on working on me and not so much focused on him/us but thought we were working on US but he did some crazy actions that freaked me out. Now I don't know what we are doing but I am more Self centred.
I'm not even sure I want to reconcile as we haven't spent time together for ages and I am fine on my own - infact I love the house to my Self. I guess you could say am moving on as what else could I have done when you haven't seen your H for 4months?
Each day that passes Canada Girl gets louder and brighter - the strong minded, adventurous, woman that gets lost in relationships.
