Not sure where I belong...STBX has regrets.

[mamabird]

I would tell him that. What do you have to lose?

check out scaredsilly's thread. Her H came back to her and I think they are reconciling, but she really thought about it very carefully.

I have to tell you that my H and I had sex about 4 times after we separated. Very different sitch - it more like 2 months, not 2 years. I thought we really connected during those times and at first we'd talk a lot afterwards when we were both vulnerable and could communicate better. I went into it knowing though that it didn't mean we were getting back together, and eventually, I started to feel a little cheap.

Now we are still not 100% back together but making progress. No sex, but he allows me to cuddle with him and rub his back. Probably better for both of us to take it slow.