I had the chnce to see and I tried to make it work be it did not happen, my therapist told me that I set myself up for failure. By I don't see how someone could flight 3000 miles, and not take 5 seconds to say hi to someone that they have know for 20 years and married 8. I cannot wrap my head around it. I would have done everything possible if the roles were reversed. Very disappointed, and torn, how could I still love someone who has been treating me this way?