Make plans in advance so you don't have those long days stretching out in front of you. I started going to movies by myself, one time I drove in the parking lot and just couldn't do it but the next time it was easier and now I enjoy it. I can see whatever I want, whenever I want.
Do things that YOU want to do, it will improve your general outlook when you find you can still have fun even tho he's not there.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss