veroprado, it's ok - setbacks like these happen. We are only humans. Don't worry, this won't be a "make or break" event of your R. Enjoy yourself on Tuesday, talk about funny recent events. The basis of an R is attraction, physical and emotional. So think of how H will like you at the dinner - while staying detached. Yeah, it's easy to preach, LOL. I know how difficult the balance is...