Another question to anyone If MWD says do what works and texting (no matter who initiates) was keeping the coms open and H was responding to me - why am I to go dimmer - no initiating - as we now know he will initiate if I don't?
I understand no hooks, no detecting but not responding to some texts is a game, isn't it? I just don't want to lose how far we've come and return to NC if he only sends one a day. I am going to put my phone on silent so that I don't respond immediately a text arrives.
A further question When H didnt reply for awhile in the past he would write "Sorry, I've been .... didnt see text msg. And then ansa me"
So do I inform h of my GAL by "sorry H, I was at the cinema/out for lunch/out for a walk. And then ansa his text"
What do you think?
How did coms get so difficult?
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"
