Trying to do that. It seems like he really makes an effort to see me though despite my feelings. It's weird. He brought the kids home and of course didn't call first. I wasn't home. lol They asked did you go to the grocery? I came in empty handed and hadn't been anywhere really but he didn't know that. He made it a point to tell me his plan was to go to dinner and go clothes shopping for himself. Not sure why he told me really. He asked to take some things down to the other house. I told him that was fine I can get it and I didn't want to keep him from him plans. That is when he told me his plans and then got sort of pissy that I refused the help. I don't know what I am supposed to do though. So he moves out then he keeps showing up. Keeps trying to do things for me. Is that to help with his guilt or what? One of my problems is that acts of service is my love language and previously he seriously did nothing. Nothing. He wouldn't even pick up after himself much less do a thing for me. That just pisses me off too. So how am I supposed to take that? Should i just take the help? I feel sort of like he is setting me up for another blow. If that makes sense? I don't trust him. Not with my feelings or anything else really at this point. It feels like the most impossible situation. He doesn't want to be here but has his foot in the door. I really think he has no idea WHAT he wants but this is just ridiculous. Of course at the same time I don't want to run him off. Blah.
