best and worse thing to ever go through

[Grocerykartman]

I feel the anger creeping in

My first through 239th inclinations are to tell you to go out somewhere tonight and have some fun on your free Saturday night.

But, if you're not planning to, my 240th inclination is to say here's your chance, man, to let out all of your anger in your next post. Why the anger? Really think about this. Who all are you mad at? Who are you mad at most? Who are you mad at least? What do you think would help you alleviate the anger? How can you grab this anger by the trucknuts and show it who's boss?

You need to get the anger out of your system, but it's probably better better here first than before you say something that'll make the situation worse, or, will just reinforce her indifference to what you've said to her so far.

I feel like I am being too soft in all of this

How do you want to be in all of this?

I am having a hard time wrapping my head around lovingly detaching, trying to speak her LL, and giving her space.

I think your follow-ups to the first two statements you made are more pressing right now than how to juggle these 3 acts. Let's examine YOU first.

But only if you're not acting on inclinations 1-239 first, which I hope you do instead.