Hi Wendylon
I feel abit defensive but, good questions

I didn't want to ask before he's on business and he's miles away and he can't deal with this stuff up there - maybe I needed to write that in the text itself...he did mention it on the phone before he left and knows it needs doing. It's our MOTs expire 30 Oct - I'm not from UK so I get confused about it - he used to do both cars..so things need booking sooner rather than later.

I think I was also wanting to find out if he was back already cos of the sudden morning texts.

Yes - you're right - I probably do send texts with "hooks"
I just text "Glad you're safe" at 20.15hrs - I had thought smiley face myself...next time I'm going with my instincts


Wendylon - I don't think he will EVER make an excuse to call or see me. I want him to choose me and make those moves BUT I think he is fine like this BUT I AM NOT.
I don't want to be a textfriend/wife - he can FO with that (too much G&T!) - BUT I don't know how to get out of it....any ideas? Dimmer? No responding at all, even to good morning?

I am not asking when he is coming over nor mentioning MOT again. He knows about that.

I was secretly glad that he let me know he was back too

ME41 H39
T12 M9
Ilybinilwy 10/2010
H moves out 11/2010
H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011
Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012
Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-)
"Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"