Well today is Saturday and its dark and raining outside. Sort of how I feel lately. This limbo stage is hard to figure out. I guess the bright side is that W is still here. She started her new job this week, so we will see if this will help her attitude. I read something on another post today about Jim Conway he says there are 4 pillars of a MLC, body, spouse, job, God. Which is interesting these are the four areas that are tormenting her. I wonder does the MLC person have to deal with each one before coming out of the dark valley?
Same where I am drizzly and I think forecast of rain again tomorrow. I wanted to GAL and ride my bike so ended up using the stationary bike at home. I hope it's sunny tomorrow.
Hey that's great she's starting her new job. IMO, this will relieve some of the pressures she has at home. My W has expressed to me a ton of times that she tries to really stay busy at work so that she won't think about our sitch so much. Don't expect anything though keep focusing on you and the kids. You can try again asking how her day went and if she's irritated then just drop it.
Take care
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.