But if I tell him that will be get fed up with Persuing me ??? I don't want that either.
It that's all it could take for him to stop pursuing you then I don't think he's worth it! I'm not saying you should put him off but make him work/put effort and time into winning you back. Even for your own sake, proceeding slowly seems wise.
Well done holding your ground!
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012