About to separate....

[mamabird]

Is there a way to start filling her love tank on the sly? How does she need to be loved? If it's acts of service, like it is for many women, you might be in luck because you can do helpful things without pressure or being in her face.

My H's is physical affection. Somehow I have been able to get him to accept that from me and it has made a really big difference.

Give her time and space. Eventually life will catch up w her and she will come back to you needing something, some kind of support. When she does, you have to be rock solid. For now, smile, be supportive and loving, but let her run the show.