I talked to W last night and told her about d6 being unhappy at school and spending a lot of time in the "safe place" explained to W that the teacher tried to talk to her about it and d6 said she had a headache from the milk. W said she talked to d6 and said yes that is what she had...but when I talked to d6 it was because she had to go to Bruin house and be with W....

W and kids are coming over tonight for dinner and to carve pumpkins...I know W will tell me she is broke...In the past I helped her out but now I think she should just ask her parents for more money because she shows no interest in working for a living..when kids are with her they call me up asking for lunch money because mom has no money...I have to leave work and go to the school and put money in....

My kids C recommended we spend the holidays together as a family but I am dreading the awkwardness this holiday season...I know that W parents will want her to come over for holidays but I don't feel comfortable coming over to their house...I like them and get along well with them...it is just the situation right now.


m-12 yrs
m-42
w-40
d-11
d6