Hey anotherstander...thanks for your comments on my sitch..I was reading yours and see a lot of similarities....I too have been exploring the peri menopause and menopause connection..I think my W is going through this as well. What have I done that works- well I am trying to figure out when she is about to have her P and stay way away...because she is much different person then very erratic...but that is hard when you don't live with your S and also because in this stage they are not regular P---the timing is all off. Anyway it sounds like you are doing a good job on standing your ground...have you picked up any new hobbies or done anything for yourself? I have always wanted to learn how to dance...ball room and swing etc
