About to separate....

[dorightman]

I know I'm not supposed to snoop, but I saw an email she wrote to her friend tonight that said she was surprised how detached she was from me and that she thought I was slowly coming to terms with a divorce with her. She also wrote that I wasn't moving out and that she was going to find a place to live with our kids and move out soon. I talked to some of my friends tonight who told me to try to give her as much space as possible and not kiss or hug her for the next month. They said if she doesn't move towards me after a month to forget it and accept that she's gone for good. Anyone have any advice? I'm not feeling that anxious right now, I guess I'm starting to detach too. This doesn't look very promising. Should I continue to go to therapy with her, or should I just throw in the towel and accept that she doesn't love me anymore and get divorced? Is there any hope left or am I in denial as she puts it.