Nina, I spent 11 years freaking out on my H when he didn't do something that I wanted to so I figure this is a 180 for me! I did tell him he needed to eat and eventually he wandered downstairs and grabbed one of the leftover cutlets. He told me he couldn't believe the boys didn't like them because they were delicious.
He eventually comes around, usually. I just have to be PATIENT. I went through the goals that I had set back on 9/1. I've reached many of the little milestones, especially in the "family" area. I'm glad I have this board and my list of goals because I can really see how far I've come.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page
