It certainly isn't going to make them come back. I tried that, she still left. What is left to do, get happy and move on to the point where I am ready to have a healthy, happy R. Hopefully with my wife, if not then someone else.
Put yourself in their shoes for a minute. They believe that what they are doing is right. Who I am to tell someone else that what they believe is wrong.
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