Quote: He gave me the papers on the day of closing... and said 1. it made sense for me to do it, 2. he didn't have to sign for it and agree to it, and 3. he was happy to sign for it.
I read this to my friend and we both cracked up. These mixed messages are the type of thing so many of us have to deal with!
Azure, isn't it odd... shows their mixed up heads, I think. Deb, thanks! Hope you're having a much better day today!! SS, great minds is right! I'm glad my text was in line... thanks for the feedback.
Quote: I posted on midlifecrisisforum.com on the infidelity forum (Question for mickb84) and got a great response. mickb84 is a guy who was in our H's shoes and got out of his situation and went home. Go read the post. It is very encouraging and reassuring to know that we are not all nuts.
This was posted on the Infidelity forum and I went and read the site/post referenced here. This mickb84 is exactly in the shoes of my H... and has gained the kind of insight I wish my H had right now.
It was very interesting to read his post -- as someone very emotionally involved with an OW, he realized it came down to him needing to decide what was more important to him-- his 15 years of M and all that went with that in his life, or his A. He sounds like he's done a lot of self-exploration... and really sees the LBS' experience pretty well...
Now, if I could get him to become my H's best friend.... (kidding!)
I'm going to go start a new thread.... this one's gonna get locked sooner or later...
Interseting about the mid life crisis forum ~ I will check it out. Let me know the name of your new post!
Did you get a repsonse to your text message yesterday?
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
