He's still seeing the OW correct? Well set the time that he is allowed to see the kids. He's now allowed to see them whenever he feels like it. Keep the schedule tight. When he does come over, make sure you look amazing and maybe have a little makeover to show him that you're not the same old person you were before.

On one of those occasions, tell him to watch the kids because you're going out and then kiss the kids and leave without telling him where you're going. Go out with a friend and have a nice dinner, see a movie, just something that will get your mind off of things for awhile. You show him that you aren't at his beck and call.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER