"I would also like to think just approaching the point of moving on will have some influence in the end of the A. So the better we apply the things we learn, and the more we can detach, the faster we can get to our happy places."
HOw does your S perceive you are moving on, w or w/o her? I am worried the message I would send by "putting on a happy face" when he's around is that I'm happy w/o him, so go ahead and have a good life w OW.
I wish there was a magic formula/pattern for As--so I'd be able to follow the progress through this.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.