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Re: Hanging out, down the street JustStunned #2291211 10/20/12 12:13 AM
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kml Member K Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 18,913 Likes: 317	I would think 5k would only be if you didn't roll it over but took the money out and paid taxes on it. I had a somewhat complicated QDRO (Ex had a defined benefit plan, but would still be earning more benefits after the divorce, formulas had to be applied and it all had to be kosher within the somewhat arcane rules of the large organization he worked for). I hired an outside expert to do the QDRO, to make sure I didn't get messed over, but it still only cost several hundred dollars (and I thought that was cheap given the amount of work involved). Now - I suppose if you had several DIFFERENT plans to QDRO, it could be more (my friend who referred me to this guy, when she got divorced, her husband had several different pension plans from several different jobs, so I think her cost to QDRO all 4 or 5 of them was more like atill, it's worth it to make sure it's done right.

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Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/17/12 05:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	08/17/12 10:57 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/19/12 01:49 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	08/20/12 09:54 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	08/20/12 10:30 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/21/12 01:20 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	SunFunOne	08/21/12 01:31 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/21/12 02:38 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	SunFunOne	08/21/12 02:43 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	08/21/12 02:44 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/27/12 08:56 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/05/12 05:20 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/06/12 04:53 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	09/07/12 12:03 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/11/12 07:08 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/17/12 05:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/24/12 04:59 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	09/25/12 02:45 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/25/12 05:45 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	09/25/12 07:34 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	WenikiTiki	09/26/12 12:29 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	09/26/12 01:04 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/26/12 04:06 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	WenikiTiki	09/27/12 07:53 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	needgrace	09/29/12 03:00 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/02/12 04:55 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/15/12 05:44 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/18/12 08:37 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	10/19/12 01:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/19/12 05:12 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	10/19/12 06:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/19/12 08:12 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	10/20/12 12:13 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	10/20/12 12:13 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/22/12 04:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/01/12 05:51 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	jbnati	11/08/12 07:26 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/09/12 06:43 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	11/11/12 10:15 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/16/12 06:23 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/19/12 04:50 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/21/12 07:36 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	11/22/12 01:16 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	12/19/12 02:34 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	12/23/12 01:55 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	12/26/12 06:02 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	12/26/12 08:58 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	needgrace	12/27/12 05:20 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	01/02/13 09:57 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	01/07/13 05:47 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	02/11/13 07:12 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	needgrace	02/14/13 03:59 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	02/18/13 06:15 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	02/18/13 06:51 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	02/18/13 07:30 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	02/19/13 10:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	subguy	02/20/13 01:53 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	BeingMe	02/28/13 11:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	03/17/13 07:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	03/18/13 02:59 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	04/14/13 03:29 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	04/29/13 05:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	04/29/13 05:26 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	needgrace	04/30/13 02:36 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	05/07/13 05:35 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	BeingMe	05/10/13 07:01 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/11/13 12:25 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/15/13 08:01 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	05/16/13 06:09 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	05/16/13 06:46 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kat727	05/16/13 11:47 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	05/16/13 06:55 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/17/13 08:02 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/17/13 08:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/21/13 08:26 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/29/13 05:05 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	06/04/13 04:17 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	06/04/13 05:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	06/04/13 05:43 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	06/04/13 06:53 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	06/04/13 11:34 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	06/04/13 11:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	06/05/13 02:14 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	06/08/13 12:04 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	06/08/13 12:14 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kat727	06/08/13 12:38 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	06/08/13 08:14 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	06/09/13 07:49 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	SunFunOne	06/09/13 11:51 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	06/11/13 05:30 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	06/12/13 03:26 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	06/12/13 05:12 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	06/12/13 12:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	mkultra	06/12/13 02:22 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/01/13 04:54 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	07/02/13 05:23 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Underdog	07/02/13 08:33 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	paige40	07/04/13 05:18 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	BeingMe	07/09/13 01:09 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/14/13 03:46 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/15/13 05:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/17/13 04:11 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/18/13 06:12 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/23/13 07:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	subguy	07/24/13 12:21 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/31/13 06:53 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	08/01/13 03:35 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/07/13 06:13 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/16/13 06:24 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	08/17/13 03:51 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/18/13 02:49 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/19/13 02:14 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	WenikiTiki	08/19/13 03:45 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/28/13 04:45 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/10/13 05:19 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/18/13 09:18 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	09/20/13 01:50 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/23/13 07:09 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/24/13 05:20 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Underdog	09/26/13 12:50 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/26/13 04:55 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Underdog	09/26/13 05:24 PM

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