Congrats L2L! It is difficult to know for certain what worked and what did not when it comes to how we deal with these situations. The bottom line though is that it sounds like you did 'what works'... and that is rule #1 for divorce busting!!
Good luck with your piecing!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce