Ok. The IC seems to think that my anxiety has a lot to do with me living up to my own expectations. Well its a little deeper than that but that is a big part of it. And that I was trying too hard to live up to those expectations that I didn't take time to just enjoy my marriage and my W.
That was me as well. No question about it. Led to the downfall of my M. It was also the biggest part of my resurrection... I no longer allow it in my life.
And you are very welcome for the advice. I am paying it forward just as others did for me.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce