Hi Wonder,

Was reading your thread today and thinking your H is very communicative very articulate when he talks with you. He lets you know exactly where his head is at--or so it seems. Whereas my H is cryptic, says one thing yet means another, says assinine things to me, hurtful things, only opens after he's had some alcohol, his words and actions RARELY match. I don't know what I'm getting at here, but it's interesting the communication styles or so different yet they are basically saying the same things. does that make sense?

They're unhappy and can't figure out why, they just don't get it!! I think I read that men are just slow, they will catch up but they are just slower coming along. Even spiritually they have a harder time. Must be the nature of the beast.

Anyway I think you are doing great with your depressed H. My H is depressed but doubt he will ever do anything about it. Thus I continue to pray.

Cathy