I've considered playing games like that, sending the OW a letter with no return address telling her that H is still seeing his wife. It's gratifying to think about for a time, but never as satisfying as what God puts into action...if we wait patiently. And, in the end, I think I will be proud of myself for resisting such urges. I will be Jackie Kennedy and continue on my merry way with my head held high.
Going on a vacation with someone else's kids is NO honeymoon. He can have at it. If he's like my H, he will try to pull off the happy dance after he gets back. Don't fall for it. Maybe he is convincing, even to himself, but taking on somebody else's kids!?? Talk about a nightmare.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson