Thus far, I can say every post by every one has helped. The more the posts the more helpful.
So as far as being "very athletic," if you only knew. A few weeks before the bomb is when I started exercising. The bomb has only fueled my self improvement. As far as clubs, other than gyms, I have no clue. My IC did tell me about a website (not dating), where people with similar interests can meet up. So I'll check that out, and on the home computer, as I don't care if W sees that (vs the DB site).
A few random thoughts to add in... Would it be wrong for the LBS to ask the WAS how to be more selfish? Seriously, they are pros at it. And then how ironic is it that the WAS is viewed by most as crazy for all that they do, and yet so are DBing LBS. Maybe I'm late to this realization, but at least I'm realizing. And don't worry, I'm not going to ask W for tips of how to be selfish and GAL.
So I'm about to go out, hang with a friend for awhile, and if there's any wine left when I come home, then i'll have a glass. Funny thing is our neighbor / W's BFF and kids are coming over. BFF's H was going to come over, until he found out I won't be here. So much for the married double date life we all once enjoyed. I am saying that in the positive tone from my POV.
Currently W is cleaning the house. She commented about how our house is always dirty. My genuine, non mean response was simply, "Yep, once I let go of the super cleaning". She didn't like it so much. At least it is the truth. And it was said genuinely like I have with the occassional real compliment.
