Hi Lee and Seattle... thanks for the great feedback! I read it earlier bit had no time to post.
What's hardest? NOT calling is very hard sometimes. And you're both right... calling with R or D talk is just not a great idea.
His silence may mean considering things, I'd hope that and it has been the case before. But may mean he's avoiding me like the proverbial plague. Or that he is afraid to talk to me after giving me D papers as a birthday present.
We're having a big storm here. I was still in my car during the time H usually is considering leaving work, so I texted him to drive safely and that I was thinking of him. Short. Considerate. Honest and (I hope) can't be taken as anything else.
I also scheduled fun plans for tomorrow, Thursday and Saturday, got a coupon for VS that I will have to use this week, heard one of my projects came in 2nd place in a contest, and actually enjoyed it when someone I know decided to be very flirty with me. All in all, a pretty good day.
wonder
P.S. I've been wondering about pilates. Have a friend who raves over the benefits, but it seems like work to me. Yoga isn't "work". I am thinking about taking up belly dancing and/or salsa...