So I had another thought today about all this pressure we feel. Throughout my life I feel like I have always handled pressure pretty well, granted I have never felt its magnitude like this.
I also consider myself to be a bright guy, not a wordly scholar by any means, but I can follow along in about any conversation. When it comes to DBing a lot of the times I feel so lost, yes things are starting to click, I think it comes along as our detachment progresses.
What struck me today is that we are so worried about dotting our i's and crossing our t's with our interactions, so they will come back, when really it may be easier to make sure you don't give them any reasons not to come back. And that is staying on the high road.
Sometimes we might do something weak, some backsliding, but as long as it isn't angry or bitter, when all is said and done we can hold our heads up high and say that we walked the high road.
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