I too have been in this stich, to call or not to call, that is the question.
If you think enough time has pasted, then call. I found it best to set myself some 'rules' 1. At a time where i felt really. really good. 2. Put on dinner (or something) so that you can only talk for a very limited time ie 10/15 min. 3. Have something really fun to do after. 4. DO NOT R DO NOT, bring up the topics of D, R or S or even anything to do with it. 5. Keep it very light and cheery etc, etc.
This i found made all the difference for me, and surprised H, especially keeping the call very short. I went dark for about 3 weeks and then called him for a very brief 5 min. first of. After any extended period of darkness i would give him a quick call with the longest being 10 min. I made a put of having NO particular excuse for calling other than i would call any friend who i haven't heard from in a while just to say hi.
Lets us know how you get on, and take care.
Lee
PS I too practice Yoga, made a big difference to me. Any one tried pilates?