Can I do this?

[LoisB]

I agree with AJ about the Facebook thing. I de-activated my account which puts your account in some sort of purgatory. I avoid FB like the plague. Been there and done that and it's just not worth the energy needed to scrape me off the floor. I also agree that--as hard as it is to grasp--the OW is not a concern. She is there to cover up what he doesn't want to look at--what he's too afraid to deal with head on. I'm so inspired by your daily struggles. I can't begin to fathom how you are seeing him daily. You must be one tough cookie. Talk about a DB baptism by fire! You are obviously incredibly strong to have made it this far under those circumstances--AND you haven't caved on the D! You are one tough broad! You are inspiring. Heather