Thanks Nina. I read your thread and posted on it. Sounds like we have similar situations, so keep me posted.

GAL and work on being the best person you can be, the rest is out of your hands. Try not to dwell on H and OW, those thoughts will poison you and it will be harder to move forward. Stay busy to keep your mind distracted. Every time I thought about H, I would force myself to go to the gym. Now I am 12 lbs lighter, feel awesome, and I'm addicted to hitting the gym because I love the way it makes me feel.

I wish you the best.

M: 38yo, H: 44yo
Together:10yrs
Married: 6yrs
No kids
BD 8/15/12
H walked-out 8/18/12