And now for the million-dollar question...

I haven't heard from H in almost 2 weeks. Do you think I should contact him? (FYI-- we've been dark for this period of time before.)

In my email I said he should let me know when he was ready to discuss a settlement and how he wanted to handle things. Is it good that he isn't calling to talk about this?

Should I call him to discuss it? (It might be good for me to talk about this before I decide how to answer his papers-- or not.).

Should I call to say hello and see how he's doing. I do want to know.

Or should I let him come find me should he so choose?

Should I put the whole thing aside and go on a Victoria's Secret shopping spree?

Any thoughts? Not sure what I think yet, but leaning toward #4, so feedback would be great.

wonder