So, W sent me an email that we are unable to refi the condo. Now, I always do the financial stuff but had her call as it is time for me to not take care of everything..
My first inclination was to write back and ask if she had asked X or Y question and if she had told them XYZ.. as if she could not have done it correctly or thoroughly. (part of it fueled by my resentment no doubt)
but then i realized that it was no wonder she calls me patronizing...
so i just thanked her for looking into the refi..
LIGHT BULB moment!
and then today, she texted asking me if the guys who are renting the condo are definitely moving out in May...
she did not say why she wanted to know.
(and of course,i am wondering bc she had said something once about moving in there herself in May)
i was so tempted to ask why but i just texted back that i did not know... and i have not really thought about it much since.
I am SURRENDERING! WHITE FLAG!
That is me waving it proudly at our picnic!
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
