I am so sorry I have not been here lately to show my support to you. I just caught up with the latest posts here in your thread.
You are so brave and strong - I hope you can recognize that. This part of the journey, with the D process - I love how you are keeping yourself grounded and real - wanting to do it in a respectful and considerate way. You know it will be hard. There is so much pain and we cannot control our spouses' actions and reactions. But we will get through it. You are not alone in this...
Have I told you I love reading your post? You deal with your hardships with such compassion and kindness and I am trying to emulate and learn. It has helped me so much this past couple of weeks.
Thanks for the book recommendation. It sound like it's helping you a lot and I think it might help me too. So I will get it.
And yes, let's get together for a drink or two (or three or more!) I am feeling much better now and feel now and I know we will have a blast. And hey, maybe we can figure out how to get Alex and the gang to show up with the bats in future post-seasons... I have the kids this weekend, but we will figure something out hopefully for next one.
PS - Thank you for being so supportive to me. I know I have not responded yet - it's my first day back and am slowly catching up. I thought I would start by checking folks' thread here. I will connect with you later over there. Have to pick up kids from school now.
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Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
