I too have seen lots of confused messages from my H. He is involved w OW and is convinced he loves her. Nothing I can say or do seems to snap him out of his perception of his reality.
I guess that "be the better choice" option is the only thing I have to work towards...and I don't know what advice to give you except to keep a PMA (easier said than done, I know).
Time will tell. Everything I've read about EA/PA tells me that eventually MOST will run their course and hopefully they will "fizzle out." It is very hard to imagine that H could give her up, but in is out of my control, so I have to trust that Michele is her DB/DR books knows what she's talking about, along w all the Vets here!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
