Hi snodderly, yes indeed I am there to support my friends, but have told all four of them I am a neutral friend and will remain friends with them all. I dont voice my opinion to any of them, neither do I take sides during the arguments, but I find it all very interesting to watch and makes me realise it is more an act of life than just poor me going through this. myself and son are absolutely tremendous thankyou for asking he is a sure credit to myself but most importantly to himself, he is a superstar xx