Many thanks for your replies, in her diaries it contains exactly when her behaviour changed. I got the speech (After I said; I love you more now than when I first fell in love with you: Her reply:I think the world of you and I care for you deeply, but we are more like brother and sister: Then she started to cry a little, but she would not talk about it. About 2 weeks later I took it up with her again but she wouldn't discuss it, so I got miffed at it and if and when I do the dairies I will go into more details of what happen on this night.

Best Regards

Love

Delboy

P.S Dawn is the name i'm using for my youngest D age 22

Del is 53

Liz Ex wife is 55

Ann is 28 and eldest D

Louise is 25 and middle D

We lost our first born a son, died at 3 weeks old May 3rd 1983, Exactly 5 years to the day my granddad died (my Mums dad)

We were married April 1981. I first spoke to her on Mon 25th August 1975. Me 16 years old, she just a few days short of her 18 birthday And I danced with her to the no: 1 hit of the day, The Stylistics ' I can't give you anything but my love' I fell in love with her in last week of July/first week of August 76, Engaged May 77.