Is this cake eating? 9

[MichelleLT]

Hi NLW. I saw your post on Ali's thread and stopped by to check on you. I read parts of your last thread and this one, so there's some big gaps in what I know of your sitch, but figured I'd throw my own 2 cents in anyways.

The WAH has to believe everything will be better after the D, otherwise everything they are doing is just a waste. When things surrounding the S/D don't go as planned, it challenges their world view and throws them into a spin. They last out, and it's not pretty.

Don't interfere with his relationship with the kids, that's his problem. Give them love and support, but don't get involved directly.

Staying out of it is doing something, it is letting him reap the consequences of his actions.