Originally Posted By: Ready2Quit
It is so hard to be patient!


Believe me, I know!! I've never had much patience.

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I started to pursue and he pulled back!


Yup, that's usually what happens!

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I felt so good on Sunday after he told me he hoped it was not too late, then I crashed because he has not wanted to talk!


Don't worry about it, he's confused right now. You'll hear a lot of contradictory things from him. Just expect it and try not to react much to it.

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I keep thinking the OW is telling him what to do!


Don't let your imagination ruin your day!

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It feels so fake to me to act like a happy family when all I want to do is scream and shake him and say u are so stupid you are giving up every thing for a women who is not even leaving her husband for you, your living with your mom and now you hardly see your boys! What is wrong with you!!


LOL! Oh if only we could wake our spouses up so easily! But we can't. They're in a fog, and only they can find their way out. Some get there quickly, others take months or years and others never do emerge. All we can do is be patient and work on ourselves.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57