I think I may not text at all. Really have not been dark at all since this started. I know four days isn't that long, although with kids it is all I have.
Hang in there eyesopen. As you know, this is very difficult times for us. I've been all screwed up recently but I KNOW this won’t kill me, you either. I know what you mean about the kids, believe me eyesopen, I DO KNOW what you mean, I can tell your a great dad, keep it up. In my opinion, our kids are the most important things in our lives. By the way, I really believe in going dark. I probably was a bit extreme when it comes to going dark but it CAN make our W’s miss us. Bottom line, it really helps us protect OURSELVES. Hang in there buddy.
___________________________ Me:38 W:43 Together: 15 Married: 11 D:5 S:8 W wanted separation 5/5/12 Stopped living together 5/5/12