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Re: Separating Inevitable littleGTO #2291057 10/19/12 04:36 PM
Joined: Sep 2012 Posts: 1,001 L littleGTO OP Member
OP littleGTO Member L Joined: Sep 2012 Posts: 1,001	Here's what I am struggling with...the whole detaching thing when H moves out soon. One of his "complaints" was that he didn't feel "needed" by me or the boys. He feels as he was only needed for chauffering, housework/yardwork, and keeping everyone on schedule (which he also says he didn't like). When I am upset, I NEED him. I think that not only does it take away some of his guilt, but also fulfills his desire to be NEEDED. If I detach then won't he perceive that I won't NEED him? I don't want to pretend I don't feel I certain way when I do. HOWEVER, I Do want the best possible outcome for our sitch. M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.

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Separating Inevitable	littleGTO	09/27/12 04:52 PM
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Re: Separating Inevitable	TD35	10/11/12 01:36 AM
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Re: Separating Inevitable	Starbag	10/11/12 05:26 PM
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Re: Separating Inevitable	littleGTO	10/12/12 05:12 PM
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Re: Separating Inevitable	littleGTO	10/15/12 04:36 PM
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Re: Separating Inevitable	littleGTO	10/16/12 12:49 PM
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Re: Separating Inevitable	littleGTO	10/18/12 12:43 PM
Re: Separating Inevitable	AnotherStander	10/18/12 05:21 PM
Re: Separating Inevitable	littleGTO	10/18/12 08:04 PM
Re: Separating Inevitable	AnotherStander	10/18/12 08:58 PM
Re: Separating Inevitable	littleGTO	10/19/12 12:05 AM
Re: Separating Inevitable	littleGTO	10/19/12 04:36 PM
Re: Separating Inevitable	AnotherStander	10/19/12 06:09 PM
Re: Separating Inevitable	littleGTO	10/19/12 08:15 PM
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