Thank you Snodderly, it doesn't seem like it at times...lol. Just as W says she wants to work together, the next day she is back withdrawn again...oh well...2 steps forward, one step back. I am not really surprised, sems to be a pattern as she works through her stuff.

I will keep plugging away through her moods, "testing", and whatnot.

Alb's update today was enlightening for me from the "feet on the ground" perspective as they are further along the process. A big reminder to keep expectations at or near zero and that this is a LONG process.

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm