SG it's sounds to me like she is depressed. She is sad and not doing well that's for her to sort out since she is the one who doesn't want to be married.
Her telling you that you are ignoring her and being kind is creepy is her way of justifying her negative feelings towards you.
She needs support for what and from you? I'm sorry but who in their right mind supports the fact that their spouse wants out of a marriage?
She wants to be friends and not hate each other. That's a classic line I've never heard that one before.
She doesn't know what to do now. Another classic. To me this is her way of saying she wants you to leave so she doesn't have to bear the guilt of leaving and or ending the marriage. I've heard my W say this and IMHO SG if anyone is to leave it should be her.
WE can't afford for her to get an apartment. WOW does that sound familiar. That sounds to me like she wants you to help foot the bill if she were to leave. When this started last year with my W she said the same thing and I told my wife to be realistic. If you leave we aren't together anymore and I have to put a roof over my head.
Ahhh the old "passion was never there" line. Really? Explain how the two of you have a child together and are married I guess that didn't involve passion. Another classic line of BS! Now it's possible she doesn't feel that spark I don't know if you have done anything to try to kindle some passion in your marriage. Your W may be suffering from there has to be more to life than this. Marriages can become stale with the day to day monotony of life. Like the movie Groundhog Day life can be like that.
She hates where you live well that easily fixable. I'm sure you could both compromise and find a place that is suitable for both of you. You didn't just go out and buy the house without her did you?
It sure sounds like she drinks a lot. What needs to change since she said things won't change if she came home?
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out
