Sam,

Not much more to add...except...Ready Snodderly post several times. Allow it to sink in.

Now...stand at attention and repeat after me...

I am not the cause of her MLC

I am not the cause of her unhappiness

I need to take care of me

I need to heal myself

I need to detach

I need to GAL (get a life)

I need to remind myself that an alien has taken over my W

I need to not take it personal

I need to focus on my happiness and emotional well being

Oh...and

I need to read snodderly post to me as well as all of the MLC resourcs. I need to read them often.

God Bless,
Eric

"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans