[quote=Lisa.7] Is that something I should be doing???
Yes, I agree it is good for the kids. But, ultimately do what works for you and IMHO if he's willing to do family stuff after some time of nothing, it's nice to agree and hope for a good day. Please, don't have expectations just they can let us down at the drop of a hat.
You may have to over look or "not hear" a comment or non gesture from him, at the same time don't read anything into a good comment or gesture. I take everything lite it helps me coup at the end when he's gone again.
The idea is not to set yourself up for hurt. I pray you have a productive family day, come back and share, were all here and we all can relate
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
