Hey Wonder!
First of all, let me give you a pat on the back for setting up your printer (and to Azure...DSL? WOW!). I celebrate every time I do something I would have normally depended on H to do!!!

You have a wonder-ful (get it?? ) attitude!! You are modeling the proper behavior for him and that is all you can do right now ~ treat him the way you would want to be treated!!

Your H has to come through this in his own way and on his own time. I hate when they run from problems, but that is how we all got in this mess in the first place, right?

You are doing a great job "getting a life" and I am so SURE that H has noticed. I think he may have a bit of my H's problem in that he doesn't know what to make of these chnages or even if he can trust them. Just keep up the great work, Wonder!!!!

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)