What can I do to combat his distance/pursuit behavior?
I enjoy the intimacy and don't want to give it up. I've been keeping my PMA around him and trying not to give in to the temptation to call him names or fight back when he's being mean.
H is home from now until Monday for medical reasons. Last night, I was open and positive around him and we talked lightly about various things (not about R or M). Even when he was texting I just made a light comment about his being popular. I didn't dwell or make a big deal about his texting because it's a sore subject and he's not ready to give it up.
H was also taking shots and asked me if I wanted one. I agreed twice but stopped and told him I was ok. He said that if I was "ok, then we wouldn't be having problems." When I asked what that meant he just said that I can take it however I wanted. I'm proud of myself becuase I didn't press any further because I know it would have tested my PMA.
Me39 H35 M8 T14 Early 5/12 H FB post re: his love for me. End 5/12 H done trying, writes "Dear John" letter 6/12 Wants D, calls ATTY, no file 1/13 Loves me, wants to try, moves home 3/13 Changes mind
