Vero, I was so obsessed about caring for S4. I took control of his medical needs and never asked H to help because I strongly believed I did a better job. Maybe I did, but I resented him for not helping. And I resented him for not obsessing like me. This is huge, now how can you use this to move forward?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss