Really what we are doing is standing and fighting for a "chance" to save our marriages with our spouses.
Exactly. That's what makes it so darned tough. But that's the beauty of DB'ing, it turns the focus onto ourselves and making ourselves better so that even if the M doesn't survive, we'll emerge stronger and more confident instead of weak and defeated.
Originally Posted By: eyesopen
Would a "hey, thinking about you, hope you have a good weekend" text be appropriate?
I wouldn't right now. Maybe text on day 3 or 4, but not the first day. It's OK to reply if she contacts you though.
