yes the are going to a therapist she does not like the idea of splitting up the kids but what do you do...I will talk to W and see if we can change it up...but if you see W every day is that too much? I have read that can prolong the seperation or not allow them to miss the other person...I agree the Children come first though...it is not my W's thinking though...she is in her selfish stage...maybe midlife crises? I don't know